Looking for a sex toy but not sure where to start? You’re in the right spot. This page cuts the hype and gives you the basics you need to pick something that feels good, works well, and won’t break the bank.
First, know the main categories. Vibrators are the most common – they come in bullet, rabbit, and wand shapes. Dildos are solid, usually silicone or glass, and give a natural feel. Anal toys include plugs and beads, which need a flared base for safety. Couples’ toys, like remote‑controlled rings, let two people play together.
Pick a toy based on three things: what you want to feel, how you’ll use it, and your comfort level. If you’re new, start with a small silicone vibrator – it’s soft, easy to clean, and runs on batteries or USB. For stronger sensations, glass or metal toys are firm and can be warmed or cooled.
London has plenty of spots, both online and on the high street. Big chains like Lovehoney and Ann Summers let you browse in‑store and test the feel of packaging. Smaller boutique shops in Soho or Shoreditch often carry niche brands and give personal advice.
When you shop, check the material. Medical‑grade silicone, glass, and stainless steel are body‑safe and easy to sterilise. Avoid toys that list “phthalates” or “PVC” – they can be harsh on skin. Look for a clear return policy; reputable sellers will let you send back a defective product.
Price isn’t everything, but a decent starter toy usually costs £20‑£50. If you see a bargain under £10, double‑check the material and reviews – cheap plastic often means lower quality and a higher chance of irritation.
Cleaning is simple: rinse with warm water and a mild, fragrance‑free soap, then let it air dry. Some silicone toys can go in the dishwasher on the top rack. For glass or metal, a quick boil for three minutes works great.
Never share a toy without a fresh condom, especially for anal toys. A condom adds a barrier and makes cleaning easier. Store toys in a breathable pouch or box, away from direct sunlight, to keep the material from degrading.
In the UK, buying adult toys is legal for anyone 18 and older. Shops must ask for ID, but many online stores ship in plain packaging, so you don’t have to worry about curious eyes at the door.
If you’re nervous about privacy, pick a retailer that offers discreet billing and packaging. Most big sites have a “discreet ship” option that replaces the product name with a generic label.
That’s the core of it. Pick a material you trust, choose a size that feels right, buy from a reputable shop, and clean it after each use. With these basics, you can explore safely and enjoyably in London.